Today I have decided to create a living digital blog posting. Often times we create our blog posts, publish them with an occasional response to a comment from a reader and never return. Well this post shall be different in that I will begin with the most powerful affirmation I know and continue to add … Continue reading Ashe.Selah


Taking Care of Self II

 On August 18, 2014, I posted, “I chose to begin taking Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis or PrEP as another way to take back control of my life.  As a man of color who is also same-gender-loving the odds are against me in quite a few ways.  Instead of allowing the world to get me, I’m taking a stand with … Continue reading Taking Care of Self II

New Year’s Resolution “2015”

Just one #Resolution to sum up my 2015. Thanks for stopping by RAMBILITIES! "This is a true confession of a life-learned lesson I was sent here to share with ya'll." -India Arie

My Proclamation

For twenty four years I lived my life being who others desired me to be in order to fit into the realm of what is normal.  On February 2nd, 2014 -the day before my 25th birthday- I discovered not only who I was but largely who I wasn't.  My journey toward enlightenment has not  been … Continue reading My Proclamation

Taking Care of Self

Raise your hand if you have ever had sex unprotected?  No this isn't a trick question. Instead look at it as an eye opener. What if I told you that there was a new development in medicine that has been proven to prevent you from contracting HIV? Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis. **Breathe**.  What a mouth full.  Aye? … Continue reading Taking Care of Self


Are those few minutes of pleasure worth it? A quote without an author continues to find its way onto my Facebook news-feed. That quote being, "If you knew how powerful sex was you wouldn't have it with everybody.”  For many years this writer battled with giving up that power to those who didn't deserve me in … Continue reading Pleasure…?

Pan-gender Pan-sexual reporting live…

I identify as a Pan-gender Pan-sexual. Pan-gender because I don’t identify as one gender or the other, instead I embody all of them. Pan-sexual because my attraction is not merely to one sex or the other; gender identity & gender expression are what really tickle my fancy. I'm a humble trail blazer who believes pan-sexuality … Continue reading Pan-gender Pan-sexual reporting live…

I Haven’t Always Smiled…

Fact #1 For most of my middle school years I was on the brink of committing suicide. From my identity issues to family  stress to just falling into a state of depression, at that point in my life death seemed like the more beneficial alternative. Fact #2 I #ENJOY women. Yes I did say enjoy. … Continue reading I Haven’t Always Smiled…